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  Authorized Users
  Marriage as a Reckoning
  Secrets are Not a Good Sign
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  A Better Way to Break Up
  Establish Your Own Credit
  Helping Family Members
  The Promissory Note
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Chapter 10 Conclusion

Your spouse is your only true partner when it comes to your personal credit score. Whether or not you live in a community property state, after a few years of marriage, your credit score and your spouse’s will start to mirror each other.

Keep this in mind when you marry: Emotional or personal problems aren’t always a sign of financial troubles…but they can suggest general instability. And divorce is one of the major causes of damaged credit in the U.S.

For these reasons, even if your marriage is blissful, it’s a good idea for both spouses to keep some separate credit and bank accounts. But separate accounts shouldn’t mean lots of money secrets. If you’re married, be prepared to face questions; and be prepared to ask questions. It’s amazing what can turn up in a collection call—things like gambling debts and extramarital affairs.

Other family members and friends will only affect your credit as much as you let them—by co-signing loans, making them authorized users on credit cards or becoming their partners in business.

If you have a some financial resources and a strong credit score, the best strategy for helping family will probably be to loan as much cash as you can. But avoid co-signing for loans or making partnerships.

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